day 21-everything you wish for in a significant other

Okay, well I will make a list.

Everything i want in the perfect boyfriend:

1. they have to be cute. not in a shallow way or anything, but, i mean, they have to be somewhat attractive. 
2. they have to be funny. I love to laugh, so if they can make me laugh, as in genuinely laugh, then they're good. 
3. They have to be nice. They can't be one of those jerks that puts themselves above others. 
4. They have to respect me. If they don't respect me and the things i say and do, then how in the world am i supposed to respect them?
5. They need fashion sense. If they are constantly going out, with me or with others in stupid weird clothing, then things will probably not work out with us. 
6. not to be mean, but, in a nutshell, fitness is greatness. 
7. Muscles, but not obvious ones. Benchpressing an insane amount=gross. 
8. they have to show that they like me. I can't live with a few kind gestures a year. I need confirmation, especially if they're cute enough to make me paranoid. 
9. But the other extreme is unacceptable too. Cheesy gestures all the time: no thanks. you don't need to be constantly telling me you love me, or doing insane things to make me love you. If i love you, then i do. If i don't then you can't make me stay. 
10. Don't try to make me do stuff i don't want to. If you try to make me like go on a really big roller coaster, or eat something, and i really really don't want to, then please get the hint. Don't keep pestering me. 
11. PDAs are kind of a no-no. It grosses me out when other people do it, and i'm sure that it would make everyone else uncomfortable if we did it. 
12. Don't constantly judge everything i do. I do stupid stuff, i do smart stuff, i budget my time, i waste my time. Please don't be constantly judging me. I hate that, it makes me incredibly self-conscious. 
13. Let's face it, they can't be stupid. Stupidity is an incredibly unattractive quality. And don't pretend to be stupid either. I know the trick, girls do it all the time, and trust me, it's just as annoying with boys as it is with girls. 
14. No smoking. Yuck. I refuse to kiss you if you smoke. and i refuse to smoke. 
15. drinking is okay, but know your limits. and don't drink all the time. 
16. take me fun places. The movies is okay for like the first date, but when you learn more about me, take me to cool places. Look at parental control for ideas. 
17. Talk to me. if you have a problem, or something about me annoys you, tell me about it. Also, be a good conversationalist. I don't want every moment with you to have awkward quietness. Tell me about you, and let me tell you about me. 
18. Do stupid stuff with me. kiss me in the rain. jump on a trampoline with me at midnight. i don't know what else, but do stupid stuff with me. 
19. That's really all i can think of right now.